It can be hard to know if a lesbian likes you or not. You chit chat all the time, but there's something you're not sure about. How do you tell if your online date really likes you or not? Well, one way to tell is if you message her and if she's naughty and flirts back, she likes you. On the other hand, if it's been a couple of days and no response, forget about it. If she doesn't wait for you to make the first move, she likes you. If she's local and wants to take you out in Lodi, she likes you! It's elementary, my dear.