Women are at the top of their career game right now and spend more time at work than home, so how do you date someone in Modesto who's always busy? Remember, we always find time for who we want, so don't fret. However, you should never complain whereas it makes anyone feel guilty about their lifestyle. Be honest, let them know how you feel. Suggest a “no phone” clause while you're on a date and keep date times to a minimum. Your date will know if they want a second date in the first hour of the first date, so keep calm and eat up.